Alchemising Midlife Challenges into Feeling Effortlessly Comfortable in Your Own Skin

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Life isn't the way it used to be, and now you're wondering, "What REALLY matters?"

You've reached a point where things that were once essential are no longer relevant.

You've spent so long looking after others and serving others at work that you may have lost sight of what you really want.

You've become someone others expect you to be, but you might hardly recognize who you truly are anymore.

In an effort to keep the peace, you've compromised or minimised your core values, and now you're seeking to reintegrate them.

Your priorities are shifting, and you're in the process of discovering what truly matters to you now.

You've minimised, eroded, or lost sight of who you are, who you wanted to be, and who you dream you can become.

You've overlooked the fact that you are your own anchor point, equipped with a unique parachute of knowledge and experiences, and gifted with strengths waiting to be developed and enjoyed.

Let's embark on a journey together to unearth your treasures, those qualities that make it wonderful to be you.

Rediscover yourself, your desires, and your strengths with our guidance and support.

Imagine if you could...

Know yourself better than ever before

View life with fresh and appreciative eyes

Gain conviction in knowing what you want and pursuing it

Become your own best ally and leaving procrastination behind

Discover a newfound self-awareness that fosters self-love

Awaken into a fresh perspective that allows appreciation for life's beauty

Develop confidence and clarity to turn your aspirations into reality

Learn tools and techniques to overcome procrastination and become your own champion

You will be in no doubt that the best person to be in this world is YOU.

You will be in no doubt that the best person to be in this world is YOU.

I was born in Brazil, and brought up in the UK. My first big eye opener was returning to live in Brazil in my teens, and it began a lifelong love of travel and a fascination with other styles of living and culture. Work had brought me a good deal of shorter travel trips worldwide, but it is now in midlife that I'm truly experiencing living abroad again.

In my old life, I constantly found myself trying to fit into roles that weren't designed for me. It felt like a square peg in a round hole. I was so focused on meeting the expectations of others that I lost sight of who I truly am. It drained me, as trying to be something other than your true self does.

The struggle to conform left me feeling unfulfilled and disconnected. It was like I was living someone else's life, and I knew I needed a change, but my mind always provided me with a list of why I couldn't. I've since learned that this is its job, but we don't need to abide by it.

I dreamt of rediscovering my true essence and living a life that was authentically mine. I yearned for the freedom to express myself fully and pursue my passions without constraints.

This desire for transformation has led me down a path of self-discovery and personal growth. I embarked on a journey to reconnect with my inner self and uncover my unique strengths and purpose.

Though the path hasn't always been smooth, and I've encountered challenges along the way, I wouldn't have my journey any other way. It's allowed me to break free from the constraints of my old life and step into a new chapter where I can fully embrace who I am, and I keep evolving into each new phase. Continuous learning, continuous growth, just like it said on my self-care instructions when I came into the world.

I dreamt of rediscovering my true essence and living a life that was authentically mine. I yearned for the freedom to express myself fully and pursue my passions without constraints.

This desire for transformation has led me down a path of self-discovery and personal growth. I embarked on a journey to reconnect with my inner self and uncover my unique strengths and purpose.

When I review myself now, I can easily see that my life has been all about managing change. It's how I've comprehensively learned that this simplest advice is true:

“Loving yourself isn’t vanity. It’s sanity.”

- Katrina Mayer

My TLC Method is all about taking stock of who and where we are, unearthing those qualities and dreams that run through us like a stick of rock. Ever present in our core. Because this central guidance is the compass that directs us to our most fulfilling future.

I call it the TLC Method.

It's all about unlearning what we've been taught we should be and relearning and loving who we actually are.

(Re)discovering who we truly are and enjoying our own unique design is always possible. We just need to decide that we want to get to know and love ourselves better. Get curious. Follow where our curiosity takes us. Celebrate what we find.

It's my job to listen to you, to speak your own words back to you, see the nuances of your expressions, hear the patterns of your words, notice discrepancies and omissions. I'm the sounding board for your ideas, and I create the space for you to be you - comfortably and safely. You, being you, is what I want for you to enjoy.

Through the TLC Method, you'll experience a profound transformation in how you view yourself and your journey. You'll gain clarity, self-acceptance, and a deep sense of fulfilment.

I want to share it because I know the incredible changes this method can bring. I've personally experienced the journey of embracing authenticity, overcoming obstacles, and living life on my own terms. Now, I'm excited to guide others like you on this transformative path.

I want to offer you the opportunity to embark on this journey of self-discovery and self-love. Together, we'll uncover the unique qualities that make you extraordinary and help you thrive in your midlife.

So, you can receive the gift of self-acceptance, confidence, and the ability to navigate life's changes with resilience. It's time to experience the joy of being your authentic self. Are you ready to rediscover yourself and transform your midlife journey? Let's connect and start your TLC Method journey today.

I call it the TLC Method.

It's all about unlearning what we've been taught we should be and relearning and loving who we actually are.

Through the TLC Method, you'll experience a profound transformation in how you view yourself and your journey. You'll gain clarity, self-acceptance, and a deep sense of fulfilment.

Midlife is the ideal time to remind yourself that you can feel effortlessly comfortable in your own skin and know that it's the best possible place you can be.

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What We Will Discuss On The Call?

On this discovery call we’ll ask you about what milestones you’re looking to achieve in your business and work out whether or not we’re a good fit for each other.

We only work with people who are a great fit and who we know we can help.

This call is for you if you’re:

A Successful Business Owner.
Willing to do what it takes.
Willing to invest in your success

This call is NOT for you if:

You’re just starting out
You haven’t worked with clients before.
You’re not willing to invest in your success.

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Meet Our Founder

Andy is a Holistic Entrepreneur based in Melbourne, Australia. For the past 10 years he's been helping thought leaders and entrepreneurs maximize their online leads and sales using holistic marketing principles.